Aloha is...deserving love, peace and happiness.
“You deserve love, peace and happiness no matter what you did or what was done to you. If you don’t have it look for it. If you can’t find it, create it. If it finds you, embrace it, be grateful for it and hold onto it as best as you can.” (C.T. McGee)
Some of you struggle with believing that you deserve love, peace and happiness. You are so quick to cement your life in your past negative experiences and just as quick to write off the remote possibility of positive experiences, that it's become the story you keep "reading" and "telling" to yourself and anyone who will listen.
Doesn't this story get old? Yes!
What's in it for you? Nothing!
So, then nothing changes. You remain stuck and stale!
It's time to write a new chapter! How?
First, imagine the possibility of a different story with a new beginning and a new ending. This time, be your own hero or heroine! What would you do differently to change the course of events in your life moving forward?
Secondly, be willing to see that while your past circumstances might have been completely out of your control, your current choices are not! Replaying your sad story is a choice you make. That choice keeps you miserable and it's become a bad habit!
If you want a different result, make a different choice! These new choices are in the thoughts, feelings, speech and actions that move you forward no matter how small the step.
Lastly, I ask that you muster the courage to take one step in positivity and optimism today. Please consider the idea that you deserve all the good this world has to offer! I know you do, my Pineapple!
Live, Love and Lead with Aloha.