Change is the only constant thing in this world, as the saying goes. For better or for worse, love especially can go through many changes. And, this includes self-love.
As life unfolds, it can challenge and test love - for ourselves and for others. Over time, it can force love to expand and contract. It can grow stronger or be brought to its knees. And, life can push love into the dark crevices of hearts everywhere to shed light on the hopeless.
With every challenge we go through in life, love can bend, move, and alter in size and shape. Love can grow, develop, change, transform, and evolve in response to our life experiences and the lessons they present. It never stays the same. And, neither should you.
So, learn to bend with it. Grow with the flow. Be willing to develop, change, and transform along with love. Don't fear change; fear stagnation. Change moves us forward in life.
Don't fight change either. Allowing love to change us is what helps us evolve as humans. Learning lessons from our experiences enriches our lives with wisdom. Wisdom makes us better people and empowers us to help each other. Therefore, when we're learning, we're growing.
Where there is love, there is hope. Hope gives us a reason to keep trying, learning, and growing. Where there is hope, there is life. And, life is an adventure. Wherever it may lead you, enjoy every minute of it.
Live, Love, and Lead with Aloha.